Do you look for love in your every day life?
In my experience, we find what we’re looking for. What we seek evidence of.
I have a wonderful friend who sees hearts. Everywhere. In everything.
Every time she sees one, she acknowledges it. She gives thanks to a loving Universe. She shows people.
And so she sees more of them.
And so on.
What we seek usually supports what we believe.
So if we believe that Life is kind and loving and that people love and support us, we seek evidence of that in our day-to-day. Then we find it. Which reinforces our belief. So we see more of it.
If we believe that the deck is stacked against us or that we’re damaged goods or that we’re not good enough or always pick the wrong partners or there are no available men in this town, then we experience it. We see evidence of it. It becomes true for us.
So what if, just for today, we begin to look for evidence that love exists in the world. Everywhere you turn, be on the hunt for evidence of love.
Love leaves its mark, if you’re willing to keep your eyes open to it.
If you can’t find the love in a given situation, you can BE the love in the situation. (If you’ve already been the love enough and seen zero returns, then maybe the situation has run its course and it’s time to find a new situation)
I’d love for you to tell me: how do you see love? What’s some evidence that you can share that love is real and exists (it doesn’t have to be romantic love)? Email me with your evidence at email@example.com or Comment on this post. Or, better yet, head over to my free FB group! It’s called The ClumsyGrace Unicorns. Because, of course it is.
Maybe it’s in signs and symbols like my friend. Maybe it’s like this photo and a quick walk-by-kissing with your pet.
Love is all around us. Believing is seeing. Seeking = finding.
Let’s look, shall we?
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