Listen up, Sweetheart.
I know you want all of the love in the world.
And you deserve it.
I know you want to feel seen and heard and appreciated for exactly who you are, rather than spinning on the constant hamster wheel of self-improvement and mean-girl inner monologue.
I was just like you, not so long ago.
I felt like I had all this love to give and no one wanted it.
It felt like I was constantly seeking (and never receiving) some gold-standard love and approval from an outside source (bosses, clients, romantic partners were my 3 achilles heels)
IT FELT AWFUL.
Every small mistake would cause me to berate myself and call myself stupid
Every time I stepped on the scale, the number would determine whether I would eat that day or not
Every single molecule of my self worth was tied directly to how much I accomplished, how deeply I sacrificed, and what other people thought of me.
I was a single mom of a precocious young daughter, in a high-stress insurance job, with a wake of not-super-nice exes in my wake.
It felt like I was never going to escape the constant cycle of effort and accomplishing and self-berating. It felt like all of my worth was tied in to other people and I was never skinny enough, self-sacrificing enough, free enough from my own wants and needs to EVER “get” someone to love or approve of me enough to just…not feel like shit all the time.
In one particularly low moment, I googled, “how to meditate” because I’d read somewhere that meditation made people feel better.
The first name that popped up on my google search was Louise Hay. I quickly downloaded her “Meditations for Personal Healing” onto my iPod Classic and learned something that would change my life forever.
All that love I’d been craving? I could give it to myself.
Every word I’d hoped to hear from another human being? I could just go ahead and say it.
All of those mean thoughts that were on repeat through my brain? I could change those thoughts. Like, right now.
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
DO YOU FEEL LIKE A VICTIM OF YOUR PERSONALITY, YOUR THOUGHTS, YOUR DESIRE TO BE LOVED AND HONORED AND RESPECTED?
MAYBE YOU’RE IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT SEEM UNSATISFYING BECAUSE NO ONE GETS YOU.
MAYBE YOU ATTRACT NEGATIVE, ALOOF, OR DOWNRIGHT MEAN PEOPLE INTO YOUR EXPERIENCE AND YOU JUST CAN’T FIGURE OUT WHY.
From that fateful google search until this very day, I became a staunch advocate on behalf of loving ourselves the way we desire to be loved in the world.
It’s a revolutionary concept. Especially since so much of modern marketing is designed to keep us in a state of low-level angst and self loathing.
It’s a feminist concept. To love ourselves enough that we require that EVERYONE in our lives be loving as well.
The truth is that the love you experience in the world now, as an adult woman, is a choice (just like everything else).
And, just like everything else you experience, it starts with YOU.
Self Love is THE place to begin.
In the Self Love Care Package, you can give yourself the gifts of self love and self care that you’ve been craving from all of the people around you. If you decide to show up and do the work, you will:
- change your inner dialogue to one that’s more loving, kind, and conducive to creating cool external shit too
- reframe your thoughts around who you are to ones that make you into your own biggest fan
- see and experience all of the love that you TRULY ARE (because you’re a Divine child of this Universe and love is your birthright, babe)
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Meditation for Forgiveness ($27 value)
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